Getting an ex back anytime, forget about trying to Get My Ex Back Today, seems like a daunting task.  The net is Breaking Up Sucks!   Like most people I have experienced many break ups, and have taken quite a lot of time to get over these traumatic events.

We don’t have to look too far to know that most everyone has experienced a break up some time in their lives, whether that be husband and wife or boyfriend and girlfriend.

When it happens, we all seem to think that “our” break up is isolated and unique, when in fact that can be farthest from the truth…and you know it, we know it, and Ok…I know it too.

Life is way too short to just sit around and sulk over someone you thought you knew.  Even though we know what’s happening and you think this can never happen to you because we expect everyone else to be in this situation, and certainly never you.

Our lives are so busy, we don’t have time to get depressed or to get overly jealous or to lose sleep or appetite.  It’s all too silly and it won’t happen.  Not to me.  But, here we are and the break up is all too real and fresh.

In fact, you don’t know how to feel, or how to read your own emotions.  You’re not sure if you’re angry, frustrated, infuriated, sad, depressed, feeling sorry for yourself and the list goes on.

In addition, you’re mind starts to wander and you try to predict what your ex is feeling.  If you got dump bad, you may feel like they got the upper hand on you and revenge crosses your mind.  You want to lash out and have the last word.

And at the same time, you try to piece together the chain of events and formulate not only what you think is the cause, but systematically set the wheels in motion to patch up the issues for which you have no control.

The fact is, if the break up is still fresh, you really are in no condition to think clearly for yourself to make good decisions and work to amend the relationship.

The real truth is that time is on your side and so is T Dub Jackson.   I know what your saying, especially you ladies out there ready to bite the heads off of any “male”!  No man will ever know how I feel or what I need!  Right?  And certainly, no one named “T Dub”!  Ok, you’re probably right and you can click the “X” at the top of your browser very soon, but give me one minute and “Hear Me Out”.

Breaking Up Sucks!  Remember?  And wouldn’t you give all the time in the world, listen to anybody on this planet, watch all programs all hours of the night, or shell out any amount of cash to “exorcise” and peel away that life sucking, stomach churning, emotion draining feeling out of the pit of your belly!  So you can simply BREATH and SLEEP again!

Wouldn’t that be priceless to you if you can regain your life once more?  Really?  Think about it….

Another very important thing to consider when you are deciding if this relationship is worth saving is do they make you feel like you are understood. Do you listen to your spouse? Do you feel like you are being listened to and that they understand you? Spend some time and try to see if they do.

A relationship is supposed to be a place where you can go when you need comforted. Is the relationship one that makes you feel comfort when you have gone through something bad? Is the relationship something that you constantly need comforted about? If you are looking elsewhere for comfort, there may be a problem.

If there are questions about faithfulness or infidelity, they need to be addressed. Are you able to trust them? Are they able to trust you? If you have a problem answering either one of those questions affirmatively, then you may either need some serious marriage counseling or couple’s therapy.

In saving a relationship, there are many other things to consider and a decision like this should not be taken lightly. Ask hard questions and search hard for answers and then you may be able to find if saving a relationship like the one you are in is worth it.